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In my last post, I killed off Dr. Chad the character.  In this post I shall resurrect The Real Dr. Chad in all his realness.  Here is my new bio that will be on my website at therealdrchad.com/about.

So, you want to know about me.  Well, here’s the truth; try not to hold it against me.  My childhood was no more or less than the average dysfunctional upbringing.  Don’t get me wrong, my parents did the best they could and I think I turned out okay, but understand there is one main motivator for the decisions we make in life.  The motivator is experience and it’s either perceived as positive or negative.

Throughout my teen years I greatly perceived the majority of my experiences as negative.  As a result, I spent a lot of time struggling in just about every area of my life.  In addition, I spent a lot of time in trouble.  I resented many things about my life at that time.  Like many teenagers, I even became dramatic at the feelings of depression I experienced at the time and tried to kill myself.

My early twenties were predominately spent with mild successes combined with an adventurous attitude.  I was smacked around by life a few times and experienced the end of my first committed relationship.  A few years later I was at the end of my second committed relationship.  Ironically enough, both lasted five years yet, in the first, I was the cheater, in the second I was the deceived.

It was during the last year of my second relationship that my life took on new meaning and new understanding.  I had finally read a book that I had owned for years and, I can say it truly changed my life.  My past experiences were revealed to me in a new light.  I no longer blamed anyone one else for anything that happened in my life.  I gained new understanding of how we create our experiences and because of that I gained a wealth of knowledge about myself when I reflected on my past.

I am now in my mid thirties.  I am married and at the time of writing this bio, I have two (planned) children and a (surprise) child on the way.  I am at a point in my life where I have to deal with the same trials and tribulations as everyone else in this world.  My goal is to share with you my experiences and teach you how to recognize things you can change for the better in your own life.  This is where this site comes in.  From here on out my life will be in more detail within my blog.  Welcome to the glimpse of my life.

Sincerely,

The Real Dr. Chad